Loss
of a Nation’s Heart
10/27/13
Holidays
are a special time of the year where we gather to celebrate certain ideas of
our lives. Holidays are important to nations because it represents
certain details of a nation’s history that are deemed important. Important
enough that how people celebrate their nation’s holidays can give others around
the globe an idea of how important their country actually is to their
lives. And since this importance in stature, holidays then can
demonstrate how the country’s heart condition is and how long that country may
survive.
I
realize that holidays are not the only concept and condition that can represent
the state of a country. And to be honest, even though I have not
researched much on this topic I do not know if there are many papers or even
books written about how the country celebrates its holidays versus the
condition of the country’s heart, but it is a concept that God showed me to
write about and for the reader to think about and to search their own heart and
see just what kind of an example they are showing to the world when our
holidays roll around each year.
There
is no question that God has richly blessed this country and for centuries now
this country has stood out as a beacon of leadership for the rest of the world
to notice. Our history may be short in comparison to the rest of the
world but it has been inundated with so many promises, blessings and growth
that even the most skeptical person on the planet must contend that a higher
power had something to do with our rise; but this skeptical person must also
realize that the higher power person can take away everything that have been
given and promised just as easily because of our own selfish designs and
desires.
Each
nation has at least a few national holidays that is celebrated on a recurring
basis. These holidays may be celebrated once a year, twice a year or
every other year but they are celebrated in such a manner that represents the
reason why the holidays were created for that nation in the first place. These
dates that are set aside are done so in a manner to which the people of that
nation will take time out of their daily routines and remember the trials and
heartaches that their nation went through in order to establish their nation as
it is today. Now, I understand that not every nation is in the same
state of function as the USA is but no matter what condition a country is in or
proclaims, the people of that country are patriotic and understand its nation’s
history.
History
is a subject that many of us, including myself, absolutely hated while we were
attending school. The preconceived concepts of a history class or
course is that it will be filled with memorization about dates and past periods
of time that have nothing to do with the relevance of today’s world. How
far from correct is that concept yet it is more prevalent today than probably
ever before. Plus, when we understand the importance of something we
tend to more readily learn about those concepts instead of memorizing them because
of the importance and love that we have for that particular subject.
I
truly believe that it is ploy from our enemy that this concept about history is
so well documented and accepted within the minds of students, simply because
our history no matter on what level will always be used against us by others
including our great accuser. So one would naturally think that if
our accuser uses history against us that maybe we should take our history
seriously and what better way would that be completed if we remember the true
reasons of why we celebrate our holidays.
I
understand that our country celebrates many holidays and we use these days and
weeks to take off work and supposedly spend time with our families but the deep
question that needs to be asked is if we are doing this request from the bottom
of our hearts and not just for show. I believe that we can know this
answer by the way we look at our holidays along with our actions when take the
time off. I am not going to touch on all of our holidays for there
are numerous but the ones that I am going to address are major ones and the
ones that I have been associated with my entire life. I also have to
admit that I have not always been so appreciative of these national holidays
but I have changed my attitude towards them due to what my eyes have witnessed
over the past few decades concerning these days.
The
first national holiday I am going to talk about is Memorial Day. Many
of our children have not been taught the true meaning of this holiday and why
it is important in our history. When one asks others about Memorial
Day for the most part you will receive a response that has something to do with
barbecue, the end of school or the weekend that marks the beginning of
summer. While all of these responses are correct and they are not
bad in nature many of the people questioned do not bring up the fact about the
true meaning of the holiday.
Memorial
Day is one of our more important holidays in that it was created after one of
the darkest periods in our nation’s history. Decoration Day as it was
first known after the completion of the American Civil War and was dedicated to
the memory of all the soldiers who had perished on both sides of the civil
war. It was created as a time of not only remembrance but also as a
time for reflection and bringing back together a nation torn. Thousands
of men died for their beliefs and no matter which side of the war a family
hailed from, everyone within the nation was somehow affected by this tragic
war.
It
was not until the 20th Century that Memorial Day was extended
to every soldier from our country that had died during a war and it was
proclaimed as a day when many family members of service men and women who have
died in battle to place flags and flowers upon their headstones as a reminder
that their sacrifice has not been forgotten. A sad note to this
holiday is that many people today do not understand, and some do not even care,
about the difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day.
The
4th of July is a huge holiday within this country and is also a
popular concept within almost every country around the world. This
holiday represents our independence from Britain and all of the men and women
who gave their lives to ensure freedom for everyone who desired it. Thousands
of men died a gruesome death so that their children and grandchildren could
know and appreciate the meaning of the word freedom.
The
4th is usually celebrated with food and fireworks both
symbolizing the heart of American know-how and ingenuity to make things work
for the better for everyone. This holiday is probably one of the
most important ones since if there were not people in our past that had the
guts enough to stand up to those who they believed were subduing and harming
the stability and vitality of the newly established nation, the country as we
know it at present moment would not be recognizable. I thank God
every day for the men and women who worked painstakingly and agonized over a
period of years to create the Constitution and everything that it represents so
that tyranny cannot ever truly and legally flourish again.
Recently
I was involved in a conversation about our country’s history and what life was
like for our founding fathers. And a young person who was also in on
this conversation was giving her opinion about the founding fathers and how
they should have done things differently. I looked at this young
lady and I asked her a question and that question was as follows: “Can
you name any of the founding fathers of this country?” Because of the way she
was trying to explain her belief about the founding fathers it was not
surprising to me that she could not name any of them. Furthermore I
asked her “if she could name the first three Presidents of the country” and she
could not even do this either. Another young person did not know who
we won our independence from either. With these questions not being
able to be answered, one really has to wonder about the heart of nation and its
condition of strength and stability.
This
is what I fear about this last paragraph. This young lady, who I
love tremendously, was never taught this type of detailed information about her
own country. This is the excuse that she had and she had not pursued
anything further because she did not deem it important enough to know
about. Many of us understand who Hitler was and everything that he
did to the world while he was in power. Many of us do not realize
that Hitler was absolutely fascinated with the history of his country and all
of the countries that influenced the culture and lifestyle of Germany. He
deeply loved his country and the German way of life. Somewhere along
the way his hatred of how other nations treated his country after a bloody
defeat got into his head and took over and the rest is well known history, as
they say.
My
point is this, and I point out some other questions at the same time. If
a person who loves their country and understands their country’s history then
becomes a head of that state, then turns on the world is it possible to forgive
the misguiding of her / his actions on an overall basis? Before you
answer that question think about it for a moment and include all historical
possibilities, ten give it an answer. On the other hand, you take a
person who has no belief in their nation’s history and do not even understand
their country’s origins and allow them to become a head of state and then they
do the exact same process as Hitler did to the world, is their forgiveness just
as easy? And will this path prove forth as the future of the leaders
of that country as well?
The
next holiday that I wish to talk about is Labor Day. For most of the
young people in this nation Labor Day means the end of summer and a return to
school. It is considered by many to be the last summer holiday and
one that marks the beginning of harvest season. Labor Day was
established in the 1800s mainly for recognizing the ability, capability and
dedication of the American worker and everything that he / she has done for the
advancement of American industries. Unions heavily celebrate this
day and have a deep long running interest in its creation as a holiday. Some
of the people in the country do not agree with the policies of the unions but
they have established some great working conditions for countless people over
the decades, even though some of their means of accomplishing these conditions
were not on the up and up.
Labor
Day celebrates all those who have worked their buns off for this country and
have gone to work every day and turned out the best product available. These
people come from every line of work and each one of them should be proud of the
work that they have produced. With the worker’s dedication to their
employer this nation was built as one of the mightiest industrial producing
nations and everyone associated with this status should be applauded. So,
even though the entire holiday meaning may not suit everyone’s fancy, it still
is a great holiday and should be remembered as time passes on by.
Columbus
Day was a huge hit when I was young but if you ask a young person today about
this holiday you will probably end up in an argument. The
controversy of what Columbus did for this hemisphere is unquestionably
extraordinary and we should keep that in mind as we continue to bash this man
and his service to his country. Christopher Columbus was not from
this country and was not a founding father of this country per say. Yes,
he did employ some strange behaviors in this hemisphere and yes his followers
brought slaves, disease and other foul issues to this side of the earth, but
how would things have been different if CC did not explore this side when he
did? Ever wonder how things would be if he was denied the funds to
make the voyage or had got lost and ended up dying at sea?
The
questions I have for those of us who do not like CC and everything that he did
for this part of the world is this. Have you started out and made an
adventure like he and his crew did and if you have then did you use the exact
same equipment and means that CC and his crew used? Did you have to
fend off vicious tribes and ferocious animals while walking through dense and
unexplored territories? Did you spend months at a time at sea and
endure the natural watery elements that it had to offer? When did
those boys have time to bathe????
I
cannot argue that these men did some stupid, ridiculous and questionable acts
while they were over here. However, they also brought with them a
new way of life for all of us today and began thousands of boys and girls
dreaming of the new world and many of these kids grew hopes of living or
exploring in the new world one day. All of the optimism and desire
to learn new things drove the inhabitants of Spain and other countries of
Europe to advance their conditions on others, this too had its positives and
negatives but it was the desire to learn that makes this holiday special and
unique in its own way. And if we continue to detail out the bad
things about CC and his voyage, then our heart’s ambition to learn is also
threatened.
Now
for the “meaty” portion of this article. J
Thanksgiving has always been a time for thanks and for everything that the
summer has produced for our families. Harvest is almost over for
most people and it is time for families to gather and celebrate all of the
blessings that we have had over the past year. Thanksgiving
traditionally has marked the beginning of the official holiday season in this
country and with this holiday being the first one on the calendar is usually
heavily celebrated.
When
I was a kid my parents taught me the basic concepts of Thanksgiving and how the
pilgrims came over to the new world and after the harvest season was complete
included all of their neighbors in this feast. Everyone helped out
during those days in order to make the harvest a success so everyone was
invited for the feast afterwards. It took a while for me to realize
that the food that we have today was not the exact same type of food that they
had back in the 1700s which when I learned about this, it came as a slight
shock to my system. The word togetherness comes to mind when this holiday
is mentioned because when the concepts of this time were created everyone had
to rely on each other to get the job completed. There were no family
enemies and those that did not deserve to be included in the complete
gathering. Everyone, including their differences, understood that
there was a job to do and that it had to be done in order to survive.
Football,
football, football is usually the war cry when Thanksgiving comes around
now-a-days. Now, being a huge football fan I do not complain about
this time of year because during the week of Thanksgiving there are usually
games on almost every day of the week; many school rivalries take place during
this time. I am not going to condemn any sporting activity because I
do support these types of activities however, if these activities do infiltrate
and take over the true meaning of this holiday it should be well noted that the
heart of this holiday has been violated.
How
guilty do we feel about overeating on this holiday? Most of us,
myself included fall into this category. But as soon as Thanksgiving
week is over our guilt and gluten turns into another rush for Christmas is just
as few weeks away. But how should we feel about celebrating
Thanksgiving when we do not believe in what the country stands for or where it
has come from? What about the one being that gave us the opportunity
to celebrate this holiday? We have become so hypocritical concerning
this holiday in that we are still enjoying the fruits of our labor but are
ignoring and pushing out the one person who has allowed us to have all of these
things. Where have we gone wrong and will we ever realize that if we
do not change our hearts about this holiday, this holiday will soon be lost
because of our current actions.
To
include another angle concerning our current actions for many years now people
in this country have been trying their best to group Thanksgiving and Christmas
together as being just “the holidays”. I believe that this idea is
preposterous and should be immediately dismissed because it would totally destroy
the individual histories of both holidays and further weaken the heart and
spirit of our nation. Thanksgiving has became a target practice for those
people who live in freedom and exercise their “right” to have their opinion but
do not respect what the holiday represents nor do they respect those who do
wish to truly celebrate this historic and Godly holiday.
Christmas
continues to be the bull’s eye holiday for billions of people around the
world. My approach to this holiday is going to be two fold in that I
will be directing my words to both sides of the stream including those who wish
to ban this holiday and to the people who religiously celebrate it. I
probably should make this portion of this article a standalone article but I am
going to include it here so I have to keep the information as condensed as
possible.
For
as long as I can accurately remember there has been a movement to rid the
official name of Christmas and to replace it with a number of other
names. One of the more popular choices has been for the usage of the
word Xmas. I understand that not everyone in the world believes in
God and what the life of Christ means to others. God also
understands this and accepts this view from these people but just for the
record that does not mean that He has stopped loving you. Anyway, it
is a direct hit on this holiday for anyone to suggest that its name be changed
and that it should reflect a more secular theme rather than a Holy theme.
One
of the loudest arguments that some people take part in about Christmas is about
the actual time of the birth of Christ and how that the 25th of
December is not the date of His birth. I hope I am not bursting any
bubbles here but that statement is actually true that the birth of Jesus
probably did not occur on this date. But it is not the date that
matters; we could celebrate Christmas on June 15th or May 17th or
any other date on the calendar, even February 29th if we
wish. The date of the holiday is not what is in question but when
someone brings up this point it should present a clear message to those around
that, especially if the person really is annoyed about the holiday, about what
is present within their heart. God does not care which day of the
year a person celebrates Christmas, in fact as Christians we should celebrate
Christmas every day of the year, which would definitely represent the true
spirit of Christmas.
The
art of giving gifts from the heart of people has gone by the wayside. Commercialization
of everything about Christmas has overtaken the world with the blessings that
we have been instilled with. I can see the progression of this
phenomenon on the day after Thanksgiving when most of the stores have a huge
sale on the popular items that they believe will be given as Christmas
gifts. Now, I have participate in this event and have received some
great gifts for others at this time so I cannot argue against its concept but
year after year you hear about or witness many people fighting over these
items, some even risking jail time in order to obtain a gift before someone
else does. Where is the heart of this action? If this is
the motivation and determination that is displayed for a specific gift, just
think what attitude that child or friend is going to inherit after the gift is
given to them.
Now
for the “other hand” of the Christmas holiday. We all know that
Christmas time represents to hundreds of millions of people around the world
the pinnacle of the Christian faith. I have recently gained more
knowledge of the Advent calendar and what each day symbolizes and
represents. I still have questions about these meanings but that is
not the issue of this article. In all reality the Church herself has
embraced the concept of commercialization when it comes to Christmas. Not
so much in the monetary side of things but where it comes to the heart of what
Christmas represents.
The
heart is an individual organ which beats differently yet specifically for each
person. If a person leads and accepts with their heart they are more
likely to not hide any feelings for their cause. Christmas is a
special time of the year and should be celebrated as one chooses, but if that
person does not share the good news and the true meaning of Christmas to
others, where is the individuality of the heart? If we do not share
this news then we have accepted the commercialization of Christmas just as
others have and are now eligible for a defamation of the holiday due to our
coldness towards the meaning of the holiday.
There
is absolutely nothing wrong with giving gifts to people at Christmas, it is
encouraged and is actually the heart of what Christmas means. However,
the holiday itself cannot be watered down by anyone, because it is just that
important. If we choose to continually mass give our effectiveness
of true giving that comes from the heart, will be lost. Take the
time to get to know the people that you give gifts spend time with them and
learn what they need instead of what they want. This act of giving
comes from the heart and not from the mind and is exactly what Jesus did when
He came to this earth.
The
Church should be ashamed of herself for the actions that it has portrayed
towards the world concerning Christmas. The Church should be
shouting to the entire world the true meaning of Christmas and what the roots
of the holiday represent. There is nothing wrong with attending
Christmas choir concerts, communion services, choral groups or even walking
down the street singing Christmas carols with the youth group but if we do not
complete these activities with a sincere heart and a giving heart our fruits
are dead and cannot be used for their intended inhabitants. Say no
to the commercialization of Christmas and to the renaming of this holiday for
when we allow this to continue, we will look back one day and notice that our
heart is not welcome in this holiday either, which means our heart no longer
beats for God.
The
last holiday that I am going to talk about is New Years. It’s party
time!!!! New Years Eve is a festive time and almost every culture in
the world stops for a few moments on December 31st and parties
a little bit hoping that the next year will bring better fortunes than the last
did. For most of us in the modern world this wish has been granted
for many centuries now but there are still some areas of the world who choose
to live in the past or with simple measures as their means of survival, more
power to them for they are more likely to understand the true concepts about
this holiday than we fast paced societal people would.
This
holiday represents many things to the world and if known it has its roots from
an old heritage. Now I do not know if the ones who created this
holiday understood what it represents and to be honest neither did I until a
few years ago. But a new year is just that a new year. Which
means that everything in your personal world should start anew or start over,
right? Well the Jewish New Year which has been around for far longer
than our concepts of a new year celebration has been actually has a very deep
rooted meaning about the New Year and what is expected from those who celebrate
it. I am not saying that we all should become Jewish or accept the
ways of Jewish law but their New Year celebrations are quite intriguing.
The
Jewish New Year goes deeper than the normal party like atmosphere that we in
the modern or western world adhere to. I know for a fact that people
in Israel do celebrate the New Year, on 31st of December as well
however, the traditional Jewish New Year goes into forgiveness and how one
cannot really be “accepted” into the next year until he / she forgives others
for the wrongs that have been done to them. This is a true and
correct meaning concerning the holiday of New Years. What a blessing
it would be, a real reason to dance and celebrate if one knows that your debts
have all been cancelled. You know, I have heard that phrase
somewhere before….
Maybe
we should take another look at this holiday as well and take it to heart that
there is more of a meaning about this day than just food, dancing, partying and
football. I know that New Years Day is very popular in my family and
our tradition on this day goes back to my elementary school years. I
would not trade these memories for anything, even when some of those years were
not so happy for me. Celebrate your freedom in God while you are dancing
the night away or watching the football game on TV. Choose life and
speak life into the coming year and I guarantee that the next year will be
better than the one before. For when you speak life, the heart is
involved and it demonstrates to those around you that you have hope in the
coming year and that you trust in God for that hope to come to pass.
I
know that I have skipped many other national, state and local holidays and
festivities but I believe I have made my point with the ones that I have chosen
to talk about. I am not against all of the things that the families
do on holidays for I participate in as many of them as possible. My
intentions here in this article is one of the heart and how that while we are
playing around on these holidays we need to make sure that our heart is still
involved in the center of things. God has allowed all of us to have
a celebratory time in our lives, in fact the Bible states that God commands us
to be happy; yes, a Jewish holiday. But God also wishes that we keep
Him in the center of our lives and to give thanks to Him for life itself and to
do our duty and to remember why these holidays exist and to hide them within
our hearts, providing we still have a beating heart. For if we choose to ignore the ways that we
have become a nation then as one of the old popular songs says, we will fall for
anything that comes our way.
DLB